SEARCHING FOR REAL HAPPINESS

As a person who lived more than halfway through a life of an average human being, I have experienced happiest moments and grieving times. After all I came to know that the most common need for all human beings are happiness. We human being was consider happiness as something which comes in us from outside. 

From childhood on, most of us heard that happiness on earth is but a gift of fickle chance, and they never heard of any teaching telling them about their obligation to use this life on earth in such a way that it becomes a sources of constant joy. 

Today when I visited one of the island and was on island hopping, I have seen a boy climbing a tree with continuous failed efforts and when he reached his destined point, His expression with happiness shows the satisfaction. We all who seek true happiness in life can learn a lesson from this boy. Here you see a human being that has found his happiness, and if you will not seek to find your own the same way as this boy, you shall forever hunger after happiness.
I believe that Almighty Allah has sent us to this earth with a body, soul and a mind to control our emotions and behavior. Emotions are the source of energy we generate from our mind to express and feel the happiness or misery from us. Therefore, we have the ability to seek hell or heaven from this world & for the world after.
We humans are sent to this earth with uniqueness, even the most identical twins are not same, they have different footprints or fingerprints. I believe this uniqueness is expanded through the way we think and behave. Though with this differences, we all seek happiness as the way of life.
Some cannot imagine greater happiness than merely being able to feed and cloth their family without continual worry, others think the greatest happiness would be to live in royal castles and to travel in a golden couch,   others to find it by seeking fame and honors, high positions and renown.
I have came across with people who believe that they would be happy if they could only gain the love of just the person they adore, and have seen some who consider it as achieving a certain goal. While there are very few who seek nothing more than being free of constant worries about their daily needs and wants. For my amazement I came to know that, when these people acquired all these things could never escape admitting to themselves that, in the end, there still is something lacking in their lives and their happiness was never complete.

Therefore, I strongly believe that the happiness is your own creation from your ability to control your chaos of emotions effected from your outside world.